Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Why didn't you go to Medical School

My father(The greatest sperm donor) asked me a question today that made me want to grab him through the phone and strangle him....."Oreke, a finance degree is not a professional one....why didn't you go to medical school?" After I prayed for strength from the almighty I simply said, "Well Mr. Lewa, I would have loved to go to medical school, but I didn't have a father to send me to medical school...."
He replied...."Well Ms. LEWA(he gets upset when I call him by his last name...our last name) this is why I can't talk to you, you are a bitter woman, and one thing I hate most are bitter women"

Mind you I am very bitter towards him, but for him to call me on it really irks my nerves....
Oreke is bitter.....could it be because the last time she saw you is when she was still in diapers?.....Oreke is bitter, could it be because of the way you treated Mama Oreke? ....Oreke is bitter....COULD IT BE THE FIRST TIME SHE HAD A CONVERSATION WITH YOU WAS 2006????? Do you think that these are enough reason for Oreke to bitter??? I think they are!

An ex gave me a bible verse for days when Mr. Lewa feels its imperative to annoy me....Genesis 41:51-52 .... Joseph named his firstborn Manasseh and said, "It is because God has made me forget all my trouble and all my father's household." 52 The second son he named Ephraim and said, "It is because God has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering."


Mr Lewa was a liar, and a very good one at that. He lied to my mother when he promised her forever, he lied to God when he broke 9 out of the 10 commandments, he lied to my grandparents the day he took my mom out of their house saying she will never lack anything good....He lied to me the day he gave me my name.....he lied to my sister for never even seeing her face...

I could go on and on about this man, but I rather not because the thought of him leaves me drained! I've given him enough time out of my day....

To Be continued sometime soon

9 comments:

Afronuts said...

Hey I feel u on the parent wanting to dictate what u shud study.
Went thru the same thing but thank God I followed my heart instead.

I know ur Dad goofed big time. But try to forgive him all the same. Its divine to do that.

But keep being urself and the best u can be. Never let anyone like ur Dad influence ur dreams

U go girl

the young nigerian virgin said...

Please forgive your daddy. What he did is terrible, but its only divine to forgive.

Go on with your dreams and be who you want to be in life. Don't let anyone make you derail.

lots of love xx

Anu boy said...

babes sorry, i am not gonna tell you what to do, but then i think you should take things easy.....

Orekelewa said...

@afronuts: I do realize that I have to forgive, but I will get there in time...with the grace of God
@TYNV: Thank you

@Anuboy: Im taking it like I take everything in life...one day at a time!

Overwhelmed Naija Babe said...

awww i am so sorry my darling...

Simi Speaks said...

u r bookmarked! loving the sincerity

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

My sista, life is too short to hold on to pain. You have got to find a way to forgive. But, oh well, will come back to read the conclusion.


NIGERIAN CURIOSITY
IT WAS SO MUCH EASIER WHEN I ONLY HAD ONE...

Beyond said...

pls, work on forgiving him, cos as long as you keep holding on to what he has done, you will keep hurting....... I know exactly how it feels cos i have been in similar situations but the lord has helped me conquer and make something good outta my life with or without anyones help.

Letting go is the best thing for you.... and just keep your head up, God is on your side.

Charizard said...

u reallyshould stop giving peeps that hurt so much time in ur life..come to think of it ur life was going fine without popc now...wudnt it???